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Released 1/24/2025

 What does it mean to truly overcome adversity and emerge stronger? Join hosts Dan Schmidt and Ben Spahr as we reminisce about our year-long podcast journey, from our early days recording in a basement to thriving in a professional studio. We reflect on the incredible stories shared by our guests, like Brad's moving account of his challenging upbringing and the touching interaction with his son Drew. These moments have not only illuminated the power of resilience but have also reinforced our mission to share impactful narratives that resonate deeply with our listeners.  Throughout this year, we've been privileged to host remarkable individuals like Greg Pettit and Jason Koger, whose stories of perseverance continue to inspire. Greg transformed a moment of discouragement into a driving force for success, while Jason's journey, living life without arms, showcases an indomitable spirit and positivity. We also remember Kelly Daniel, who taught us about unwavering faith amid health struggles. Each story serves as a testament to how courage can bloom in the face of life's toughest challenges.  As we reflect on these powerful experiences, we're reminded of the profound impact our podcast has had in building a community of empathy and understanding. We encourage our audience to connect with us by sharing their own stories, fostering a collective space for healing and growth. Exciting developments like our growing YouTube channel and new merchandise line are steps we're taking to ensure our mission continues to thrive. We are deeply grateful for your support and look forward to sharing more stories that touch and inspire. 

Released 1/31/2025 

Co-Hosts Dan Schmidt & Ben Spahr are joined by special guest Kim Schmidt who happens to be Dan's wife. Kim's journey from a small-town farm in St. Henry, Ohio, to becoming a passionate interior designer is a story filled with charm, resilience, and life lessons. Growing up with five siblings on a family farm, Kim learned the value of hard work and family bonds early on. Transitioning to town life, she discovered her love for gymnastics and cheerleading, all while actively participating in school activities. As we reminisce about these formative years, you'll glimpse into the values and memories that have shaped Kim's life and the playful dynamics that define the Schmidt family.  Life took unexpected turns as Kim navigated early adulthood, initially pursuing fashion merchandising before finding her true calling in interior kitchen design. Financial constraints in Cincinnati made bus commuting a humbling experience, yet provided opportunities for chance meetings that would change her life forever. At a college graduation party, Kim crossed paths with her future partner, Dan, without either realizing the significance of this encounter. This serendipitous meeting set the stage for a shared journey, emphasizing how life's intersections can influence both personal and professional paths.  Kim’s story also touches on the enduring values of marriage and family traditions. She shares insights into balancing faith, family, and communication in a marriage, while emphasizing the cherished family gatherings that create lasting memories. From keeping the tradition of family dinners alive to passing on core values to her children, Kim reflects on the fleeting nature of these moments as kids grow up. Join us as we celebrate the lessons learned from life's challenges and the importance of family, faith, and those treasured Sunday dinners with grandparents. 

Coming 2/7/2025

  What are the moments in your life that have truly defined you? Join co-host Dan Schmidt and Ben Spahr in an intriguing conversation with Dr. Matt Roberts as he shares his journey of resilience, growth, and balance. From his humble beginnings in West Alexandria, Ohio, to the traumatic high school car accident that shaped his outlook, Matt's story is a testament to finding strength in adversity. Hear about the unexpected twists that molded his path, including meeting his high school sweetheart and the profound impact of sports in his upbringing.  As Matt transitioned to college basketball, his story took on new layers of complexity. He faced the highs and lows of collegiate sports, including unforgettable experiences like a visit to Michael Jordan's restaurant and a pivotal confrontation with a coach that altered his perspective. Discover how these challenges, combined with the unwavering support of his parents, taught him valuable lessons about perseverance and self-advocacy. Matt's reflections on his journey illustrate the determination needed to pursue one’s passions, both on and off the court.  The episode also explores Matt's transition into the chiropractic profession, sparked by personal experiences and guided by influential mentors. Witness the excitement and hurdles of building a business from scratch, as Matt candidly discusses the challenges of gaining credibility and overcoming financial obstacles. Alongside these professional tales, Matt opens up about the transformative experience of parenthood, the unexpected health crisis that tested his family's resilience, and the powerful role of faith and community in navigating life's trials. This episode offers a rich narrative of triumph, gratitude, and unwavering strength — a must-listen for anyone seeking inspiration in their own life journey. 

Released 11/22/2024

 Retired superintendent and principal Greg Pettit takes us through an inspiring journey from his humble beginnings in Hamilton, Ohio, to his impactful career in education. Greg shares stories from his childhood that taught him the essence of hard work and family values, recounting adventures with neighborhood friends that shaped his commitment to motivating teachers and students. We explore Greg's evolution from a high school athlete receiving a worn-out jersey to a college football player, underscoring resilience and the unexpected paths to success.  Greg's story continues as he transitions from being a hall monitor to the youngest head football coach in Ohio, highlighting the profound influence of mentorship and leadership. He speaks candidly about his personal life, including his partnership with his wife, Fawn, and how their shared dedication to education has impacted their family. We dive into Greg's tenure as a principal and superintendent, where he implemented innovative programs that transformed school environments, earning national recognition and creating lasting change for students and communities.  Throughout the episode, Greg emphasizes the importance of integrity, leadership, and leaving a meaningful legacy. He reflects on the powerful role educators play in shaping students' lives, sharing heartfelt stories where his support made a difference, even saving a student's life. This conversation celebrates the ripple effect of inspiration and community appreciation, urging educators to focus on relationships and integrity as the foundation of effective leadership. Join us in honoring Greg Pettit's journey and insights, inspiring listeners to make a positive impact in their own communities. 

Released 11/29/2024

 From a young boy peeling potatoes in a restaurant to a Staff Sergeant in the Army at just 17, Jim Catron's life has been a series of bold transitions and rapid achievements. His adventurous spirit took him from the military, where he served with the 532nd Amphibious Seabees in Japan and Korea, back to his roots, where he laid the groundwork for a thriving glass business. Jim’s narrative is a testament to the power of seizing opportunities and the transformative impact of strong leadership and faith.  Throughout the episode, we explore Jim's entrepreneurial journey, including the founding of his own company in 1981, the vital role of loyal employees like Kelly and Tony, and the mentorship that helped shape his path. Through stories of faith, kindness, and the pursuit of excellence, Jim underscores the true measures of success: character, community impact, and enduring legacy. Join us for an inspiring conversation that highlights the importance of resilience and the profound influence of a supportive network. 

Released 12/6/2024

 What if a moment of unimaginable adversity became the turning point of your life? Today, Jason Koger and Jeff Jacobs from Owensboro, Kentucky, share their extraordinary journeys of resilience and transformation. Jason recounts his early years on a family farm, where the values of hard work and integrity were instilled in him, and how these foundations helped him navigate the harrowing aftermath of a life-changing electrical accident. With vivid storytelling, Jason takes us through the incident that left him temporarily heart-stopped yet ignited a burning determination to overcome all odds, including becoming the first person in the world to receive two bionic hands.  Jason's journey is not one faced alone. He is joined by Jeff Jacobs, whose unique perspective on friendship and support weaves a powerful narrative of mutual appreciation and strength. The episode shines a light on the critical role of community, the unwavering support of Jason’s wife, Jenny, and the unexpected celebrity connections that have furthered his mission to help others. Together, Jason and Jeff remind us of the profound impact positive influences can have, as they share stories of overcoming adversity, redefining life goals, and finding purpose in giving back.  As the episode unfolds, listeners will hear about the life lessons drawn from near-death experiences, the resilience needed in family and business struggles, and the unexpected friendships forged through shared hardships. With heartfelt anecdotes and practical insights, Jason and Jeff illustrate the power of perseverance, gratitude, and living with purpose. Their stories are a testament to the strength found in community and the importance of embracing every opportunity to make a difference, no matter how daunting the journey may seem.  Connect with Jason Koger:  Website: https://www.jasonkoger.comFacebook:   / jason.koger.3  Instagram:   / jkoger84    Twitter: https://www.x.com/koger84 

 Released 11/1/2024

How do small-town values hold up in today's fast-paced, tech-driven world? This episode of BeTempered uncovers the essence of community pride and the vital role of mentorship amidst a politically charged environment. As we brace for the upcoming election, we remind ourselves of the power of unity, advocating for meaningful dialogues that transcend political divides. Our conversation touches on the significance of supporting local initiatives, like the school levy, that directly shape our children's future. We passionately argue that real change stems from individual actions and contributions to community well-being, rather than relying solely on political figures.  Dan and Ben share their insights into maintaining a strong community presence through quality products and a commitment to customer satisfaction. We explore how the simple actions of acknowledging neighbors and engaging in communal traditions can reignite a sense of belonging and responsibility. This episode invites you to reflect on how you can actively contribute to a cohesive and thriving society, embracing the work ethic and values that have always been at the heart of small-town life. 

Released 11/18/2024 

Eric VanVleet's story is one of resilience, transformation, and the pursuit of purpose. Picture a young boy moving from the bustling streets of New York to a quieter life in Richmond, facing the peculiar challenge of paying ransom for his gym clothes—a seemingly trivial event that sparked a lifelong passion for weightlifting. At 74, Eric still carries the humor and drive from those formative years, viewing life as a finite gift and urging us to seize every moment. This episode reveals Eric's introspective nature and how his high school football experience laid the groundwork for his strength and resilience.  The 1970s posed uncertainty for Eric as he navigated the Vietnam War draft and an ill-fitting stint in a do-it-yourself car repair shop. Guided by mentors like Dave Blackman and Bob Broscheid and supported by the Richmond YMCA community, Eric found his calling in the insurance industry, eventually founding Van Vliet Insurance at 31. His journey underscores the invaluable lessons of mentorship and learning from failure, illustrating how resilience can lead to true fulfillment and success.  Eric's story also celebrates the power of relationships in business and life. From managing a business to fostering family ties, he reflects on the growth that comes from stepping out of comfort zones. With inspiration from figures like Elon Musk, Eric navigates his personal and professional legacy, sharing heartfelt memories of his father's transformation and their evolving relationship. This episode is a touching tribute to friendship, mentorship, and the bonds that extend beyond business into enduring family relationships. Join us as we celebrate Eric's inspiring journey and the life lessons he's gathered along the way. 

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Released 11/15/2024

 What if the journey to a wedding became an epic tale of resilience and determination? Join us as we share the remarkable story of David Jones, the mastermind behind Excellence Advisory, who took us on a whirlwind journey—not only across state lines but through the stormy path of Hurricane Helene's aftermath. From his roots in Indiana to mastering the art of operational excellence with Pal's Sudden Service, David enlightens us with timeless business principles that transcend industries. His insights into achieving excellence are not just about business but about life's wider ambitions.  David's narrative takes an emotional turn as he battles nature’s chaos to reach his daughter's wedding, a testament to a father's boundless love. With roads washed out and conditions perilous, he recounts the resourceful and heart-wrenching journey, showing that love and family can conquer even the fiercest storms. As David navigates blocked highways and the possibility of not being there on his daughter's big day, he brings listeners on a gripping, inspiring adventure that underscores the power of human spirit and connection.  The heartwarming conclusion to David's journey—a symbolic wedding gift of a reflector—captures not just protection but a reflection of divine love. Through this touching gesture, David reminds us of the profound impact parents have on their children's lives. His story is a beacon of hope, resilience, and faith, resonating with families worldwide. Listen to this unforgettable episode where personal and professional excellence intertwines with a father's unwavering love and determination.  

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Released 10/11/2024

 Could a mentor be the missing key to unlocking your personal and professional potential? Join hosts, Ben Spahr & Dan Schmidt as they unravel the profound impact of mentorship, sharing heartfelt stories and life-changing moments that have defined our paths. From powerful parental influence to transformative coaches, learn how mentors have sculpted our character, work ethic, and self-improvement journeys. In a unique family exercise, we explore how each stage of life reveals different perceptions and heartfelt appreciations for mentors, sparking a deeper understanding of their invaluable guidance.  We embark on a journey through personal experiences with mentors who have navigated us through life's challenges. Relive my encounters with Coach Kelly, whose balanced encouragement prepared me for collegiate athletics, and Eric Van Vleet, whose wisdom illuminated the complexities of business ownership. These stories are not just personal reflections; they are universal tales of how mentors guide us towards achieving our best selves. Through these narratives, we uncover the lessons of accountability, trust, and positivity that our mentors instilled in us.  As the episode unfolds, we celebrate the rewarding experience of becoming mentors ourselves. From coaching youth sports to engaging with the community, we emphasize the power of stepping out of our comfort zones to uplift others. We express gratitude to those who have shaped our lives while encouraging listeners to become mentors in their communities. Tune in for inspiring stories, upcoming guests with unique journeys, and exciting ways to engage with us, as we champion the transformative power of mentorship. 

Released 10/18/2024

Special Guest Shawn Ruebush joins BeTempered Hosts Ben Spahr & Dan Schmidt to share his remarkable journey from a tragic childhood to a life marked by resilience and growth. He is an inspiring testament to the human spirit. Join us as we explore Shawn's life-altering experiences, beginning with a humorous college escapade involving mischievous football players, which sets the stage for a deeper look into his life's trials. Shawn opens up about enduring the loss of his father at a young age, navigating the complexities of family dynamics, and the emotional upheaval that followed. His story is a profound reminder of the strength and perseverance found in family bonds and mentorship, and how these influences can guide us through the darkest of times.

Sport becomes a recurring theme in Shawn's life, serving as both an outlet for his frustrations and a source of discipline and purpose. Through the guidance of influential coaches, particularly during a challenging high school football career, Sean discovered the transformative power of sports. We discuss the impact of mentors like Coach Matt Kemper, who saw potential in Shawn and pushed him beyond his limits, teaching invaluable lessons in respect and resilience. Our conversation highlights the role of positive influences and the pivotal life choices that can steer one away from destructive paths, emphasizing the critical importance of support systems and personal decisions in shaping one's life trajectory.

Shawn's story of overcoming adversity and finding gratitude in the face of life's challenges is not just inspiring, but a powerful reminder of the potential for personal growth. From a difficult divorce to finding healing and balance through counseling and mentorship, Sean exemplifies resilience. His journey underscores the importance of self-awareness and emotional healing, encouraging others to confront their challenges and embrace new beginnings. As we reflect on the profound impact of sharing our stories, Shawn's experiences serve as a beacon of hope and inspiration, illustrating that even the most trying experiences can lead to a life filled with gratitude and growth.

Released 10/25/2024.

 Legendary high school sports coach and educator Jim Place joins us to share his incredible life journey and the insights he's garnered over decades of mentoring young athletes. From the stability he found in Massillon, Ohio, to the transformative experiences at the University of Dayton, Coach Place's story is one of resilience and dedication. He candidly discusses how his own injury redirected his path from aspiring athlete to mentor, emphasizing the importance of character-building and diversity training in shaping successful sports programs and nurturing future leaders.  Explore with us the profound impact of Jim's coaching philosophy and the challenges he faced in urban coaching environments. He paints a vivid picture of the power of consistency, transparency, and respect in decision-making, all while balancing the expectations of players and parents alike. Discover how his unwavering commitment to character-driven programs turned around entire school cultures, fostering a sense of community and belonging that extends beyond the playing field.  As Coach Place reflects on his role as Director of Character Development, he offers compelling stories of personal growth and leadership among his players. Learn how his innovative approaches, such as a personal philosophy book and character card system, have left an indelible mark on countless students and athletes. With heartfelt anecdotes and a focus on building lifelong relationships, Coach Place's wisdom and experience provide a beacon of inspiration for anyone interested in leadership, education, and personal development. 

Released 9/20/2024

 What does it take to transition from a childhood dream to a life rooted in the soil? Join us as Keith Schmidt, father of show host Dan Schmidt uncovers his inspiring journey into agriculture, a passion sparked by childhood adventures and nurtured by friends and family. Hear about the pivotal moment when a generous church member provided essential equipment that set Keith on his path, and the crucial role community support played in overcoming initial family resistance to his farming dreams.  Rewind to the days when Keith balanced the excitement of meeting his future wife with the challenges of starting a farm amidst financial struggles and harsh weather. Experience his vivid memories of the blizzard of 1978 and the resilience required to manage a farm during such tumultuous times. Keith’s storytelling paints a rich picture of rural life, from joyful moments like welcoming his first son to the relentless pursuit of his farming aspirations.  No journey is without its trials, and Keith’s story includes harrowing close calls and medical battles that tested his strength and faith. Learn about the life-threatening accident during a brutal cold spell and Keith's determined fight against aggressive prostate cancer. Discover the heart of farming through Keith's eyes, where resilience, community support, and an unwavering love for the land are essential. Whether you’re a farmer or just curious about the rural life, Keith’s reflections on the lessons learned from mentors, coaches, and family are sure to resonate deeply. 

Released 9/27/2024

How does a journey from poverty lead to becoming a successful football coach? This episode of the Be Tempered podcast features Marcus Colvin from Chaminade Julienne, who shares his poignant story of resilience. Growing up in Columbus as one of six siblings in a blended family, Marcus faced significant challenges, including the heart-wrenching loss of his youngest sister, Rosa. Inspired by "Slumdog Millionaire," Marcus reflects on how his life's trials prepared him for his roles as a 43-year-old husband, father, and football coach, offering a moving narrative of overcoming adversity.

Marcus's story is a testament to the power of sports in transforming lives. He recounts his experiences with basketball, football, and track, which provided structure and motivation during his youth in Licking Heights. Through tales of hardship, like washing clothes in the bathtub and going to bed hungry, Marcus highlights the resilience and empathy developed along the way. The support from mentors and educators played a crucial role in shaping his character, showcasing the importance of community and perseverance in overcoming life's obstacles.

Listen as Marcus delves into his coaching career at Chaminade Julienne, from starting as a young coach to becoming the head football coach by 30. He shares the emotional highs and lows, the support from senior players, and the journey to a seven-game winning streak. Alongside professional milestones, Marcus opens up about his college romance and the mentors who have guided him. This episode underscores the power of thoughtful gestures and community support, emphasizing the importance of staying tempered in life's journey. 

Released 10/4/2024

 What if you could turn life's biggest hurdles into steppingstones for success? Join us as we unravel Marcus's incredible story of resilience and positivity from a previous episode. Marcus has faced some of life's toughest challenges, yet he continues to inspire with his unwavering optimism. Alongside Marcus's journey, Ben & Dan share their own experiences from the lows of living in a girlfriend's parents' basement to carving out successful careers. Together, we explore how a simple shift in mindset can open doors to personal growth and opportunity, even when the odds are stacked against us.  Life's challenges don't have to be setbacks; they can be opportunities for transformation. Through anecdotes from unexpected situations on a family farm and career twists, we discuss how maintaining gratitude, positivity, and prayer can help navigate life's uncertainties. By choosing to focus on the good, while acknowledging the bad, we outline strategies to build a resilient mindset and highlight the vital role of kindness and perspective in overcoming adversity. Our discussion also touches on the health benefits of positivity, including a surprising way a smile can influence your well-being.  Our conversation wouldn't be complete without expressing our heartfelt gratitude to you, our listeners. Your support fuels our journey, and we celebrate the sense of community and connection your engagement brings. We encourage you to continue walking this path with us, sharing your thoughts and stories as we collectively strive toward a more fulfilling life. Don't forget to check out our recommended reads, including "The Magic of Thinking Big" and "The Power of Positive Thinking," to further enhance your positivity toolkit. 

Released 8/30/2024

 Have you ever wondered what life was like before the convenience of modern technology and the hustle and bustle of today's world? In this episode of the Be Tempered Podcast, we bring you a heartwarming conversation with Mary Niekamp, the cherished matriarch of my wife’s family. Born in 1930 in St. Henry, Mary's life story is a testament to resilience, love, and the power of family bonds. She opens up about her childhood during the Great Depression, the cherished values instilled in her by her family, and the remarkable tradition of praying for each of her 64 great-grandchildren and 21 grandchildren daily.  Mary's tales are a beautiful journey back in time, touching on the everyday routines that shaped her early years. From the meticulous process of laundry and gardening to the social dynamics of small-town life, these stories paint a vivid picture of a simpler, yet labor-intensive, way of life. Her sweet love story with Tom, marked by a small gesture of candy corn, illustrates the enduring power of young love and the deep bond they shared over decades, despite financial hardships and societal changes post-war.  We also reflect on the transitions brought about by wartime and the significant societal shifts that followed. From rationing essential goods to women entering the workforce, Mary's anecdotes provide a rich, personal perspective on these historical events. As we wrap up, Mary shares poignant memories of her late husband, Tom, including his touching last words that encapsulate their lifelong romance. This episode is an emotional tapestry of family memories, life lessons, and the enduring legacy of love. Join us for a heartfelt tribute to a life well-lived and the timeless values that continue to inspire. 

Released 9/6/2024

 What if the key to business success lies in treating your sales team like sports dynasties and military units? Join us as Jim Niekamp, owner of 95% Share Marketing, takes us through his incredible journey, from his early days at Miami University of Ohio to becoming an influential entrepreneur in the healthcare industry. Jim's story is filled with pivotal moments and insights, such as the strategic advice to choose a stable industry and the power of starting in sales to truly understand the customer.  We dive into the fascinating world of business strategies that mirror successful sports and military tactics. Learn how leaders like Scott and Don revolutionized the medical equipment industry by transforming sales reps into proactive consultants, doubling revenue and building lasting relationships. Jim shares invaluable lessons on creating a cohesive company culture and the risks and rewards of prioritizing strong leadership and shared values. Discover how the journey of Midmark Corporation exemplifies the challenges and triumphs of maintaining a successful company culture.  But it’s not all about business; this episode also delves into the personal side of growth and relationships. Jim reflects on the profound impact that supportive relationships and influential figures have had on his journey. Hear unforgettable stories of friendship and love, and gain insights into the importance of delighting customers, not just satisfying them. With powerful examples from industry giants like Steve Jobs and disruptive innovators like Uber and Apple, Jim provides a masterclass on building meaningful business relationships. Tune in for an inspiring conversation that blends entrepreneurship, leadership, and the enduring power of strong personal connections. 

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Released 9/13/2024

 Unlock the secrets to mastering self-discipline and achieving long-term success as Matty Ledgerwood returns for another insightful episode of the Be Tempered Podcast. Matty, Ben, and Dan share powerful personal stories that highlight how self-discipline, rather than fleeting motivation, shapes their lives, careers, and personal growth. Ben introduces a unique concept: selecting a new discipline each year to focus on, ensuring manageable and lasting changes.  Throughout our conversation, we dive into the nuts and bolts of habit formation, emphasizing the importance of incremental adjustments to foster lasting habits. Learn how waking up early and sacrificing late-night activities can become second nature through consistent effort. We also delve into valuable resources like Craig Groeschel's leadership podcast and James Clear's "Atomic Habits," offering listeners practical tools to support their journey toward disciplined living and substantial personal growth.  In our final chapters, we underscore the significance of delayed gratification, starting small, and maintaining realistic goals to build self-discipline. We examine transformative programs like 75 Hard and the critical role of accountability partners in achieving goals. Personal anecdotes illustrate the power of embracing uncomfortable challenges, giving oneself grace, and fostering a mindset of consistent effort over perfection. Join us as we explore how self-discipline can lead to exceptional long-term benefits and personal success. 

Released 8/9/2024  

 What happens when faith, humor, and resilience collide? In this heartwarming episode, we introduce Kelly Daniel, an inspiring figure and dear friend of co-host Ben Spahr. Kelly's childhood, filled with the melodies of her father’s military band and the grounding values of a small Ohio farming community, sets the stage for a life shaped by love, faith, and music. As she navigates the challenges of raising children in Arizona’s scorching heat, Kelly’s story becomes a powerful testament to perseverance and the strength of family bonds.  Kelly’s journey takes a poignant turn as she faces chronic health issues and a traumatic assault that challenges her faith and identity. Through candid conversations, we explore the transformative power of forgiveness, prayer, and familial support that guide her path to healing. Kelly’s narrative doesn't shy away from the raw realities of her early marriage, marked by loss and financial difficulties, but instead shines a light on her and her husband's unwavering faith and spirited humor that sustain them through life's adversities.  A gripping account of Kelly's brush with death in 2017 reveals her extraordinary resilience. From waking up paralyzed and navigating a miraculous recovery to embracing life’s unexpected turns that led her family to Arizona, Kelly’s story is a moving reminder of the power of faith and community. Join us as we celebrate Kelly's journey, reflecting on the profound impact of supportive networks and the enduring spirit of hope and renewal. Her story is an inspiration, offering powerful lessons on staying present for loved ones and finding joy amidst the challenges. 

Released 8/16/2024  

How do you rebuild your life when everything seems to be falling apart? Join us as childhood friends Justin Swartsell and Dan Schmidt take a heartfelt walk down memory lane, sharing their experiences growing up in Preble County, Ohio. From football fields to Bible school classrooms, their stories are filled with humor and nostalgia, setting the stage for an inspiring discussion about the importance of maintaining a sense of fun and community in everyday life.

As we dive deeper, Justin opens up about his journey through life's challenges, including the uncertain post-high school phase and a pivot towards a career fueled by his passion for the outdoors. With a background in recreation and wildlife management from Hawking College, Justin eventually found his calling at a private hunting and shooting preserve by Lake Erie. His story is a testament to the power of resilience and the significance of pursuing one's true passions, even when the path isn't always clear.

The conversation takes a poignant turn as Justin bravely recounts his struggles with divorce and the emotional turmoil that followed. He speaks candidly about hitting rock bottom and the suicidal thoughts that plagued him, but also about the unwavering support of his friends and family that helped him through. Through faith and financial discipline inspired by Dave Ramsey, Justin found healing and a new sense of purpose. This episode is a powerful reminder that no matter how dark the times may seem, there is always hope and a path to recovery. Tune in for a story of resilience, faith, and the indomitable human spirit. 

Released 8/23/2024 

How does one rise above a turbulent childhood marked by addiction, near-poverty, and financial adversity to become a successful entrepreneur? Join us as Kevin Shook, the founder of Global Media Enterprise, takes us through his extraordinary journey from a troubled youth in Indiana to a thriving business owner. Kevin's candid reflections on his upbringing, his father's mental health challenges due to birth control complications, and his family's struggles with addiction and government aid are both heart-wrenching and inspiring.

Kevin opens up about his unexpected career path, starting as an EMT and firefighter right after high school. He shares the transformative experiences of working in both rural and urban settings, from the quiet streets of small towns to the bustling neighborhoods of Indianapolis. We'll hear about the personal growth and invaluable lessons that came from this tumultuous journey, including his passion for bodybuilding and the impacts of complex family dynamics and relationships along the way. Kevin's return to the Winchester Fire Department provides a nostalgic and touching glimpse into the importance of community and camaraderie.

In a powerful and moving discussion, Kevin delves into the tough topics of funding challenges within the fire department, the misuse of EMS for financial gain, and the personal toll of these stresses. His honest talk about sobriety, mental health struggles, and the daily battle with alcoholism offers hope and encouragement. Kevin's emphasis on vulnerability, authenticity, and breaking societal expectations underscores the profound impact of sharing one's story. Don't miss this heartfelt episode that highlights resilience, the importance of support systems, and the transformative power of honesty and faith. 

Released 7/19/2024

 Prepare to be inspired by the legendary college football coach, Mike Kelly, as he shares the secrets behind his extraordinary 27-year career at the University of Dayton. With an enviable record of 246-54-1 and a spot in both the University of Dayton Athletic Hall of Fame and the College Football Hall of Fame, Kelly remains a paragon of humility. Discover how he attributes his success to the incredible people around him and his seamless transition from the sidelines to administrative roles, always guided by unwavering values and principles.  Journey with us through the life of a versatile high school athlete whose passion for coaching was ignited by a fourth-grade gym teacher. Kelly recounts his path from balancing multiple sports in high school and college, to securing his first teaching and coaching position. His story is filled with the tribulations and triumphs of building a football program that values character as much as talent. Listen to the strategic formation of the Pioneer Conference and how the commitment to recruiting players of high character has shaped Dayton's football legacy.  Reflect on poignant moments and enduring lessons from Kelly’s interactions with his players, including the impact of enthusiasm, preparation, and accountability. Hear heartfelt stories of personal challenges and perseverance, like the tragic death of a teammate and the establishment of a meaningful award in his honor. As we conclude, celebrate the values and success stories from the University of Dayton football community, and find inspiration in the timeless wisdom of a coaching giant who has forever changed the lives of those he has mentored. 

Released 7/26/2024 

Ever wondered what it takes to transform a hesitant idea into a thriving podcast? Join us as we recount our journey from the rough beginnings of the BeTempered podcast to the inspiring stories that have shaped its growth. The spark ignited with our first guest, Matty Ledgerwood, whose entrepreneurial spirit and self-taught construction skills captured our hearts and set a powerful tone for future interviews. Dive into Matty's journey and discover why believing in oneself can make all the difference.   From the dual careers of Howard Stammen to the resilience of Drew VanVleet and the profound insights of Coach Mike Kelly, this episode is packed with stories that showcase the extraordinary lives of ordinary people. A special moment of synchronicity led us to enhance our podcast production, reaffirming our commitment to delivering meaningful content. Tune in to experience the impactful feedback from our listeners and the divine signs that guide our path forward, ensuring that the Be Tempered podcast continues to inspire and connect us all. 

Released 8/2/2024

 Have you ever faced a rejection so monumental that it felt like the end of the world? Join us as we explore that very experience with Dan Schmidt, who shares a defining moment from his youth—being denied a loan at just 23. This seemingly devastating setback turned out to be a blessing in disguise, guiding him to a more supportive financial partner and steering him away from potential financial ruin. We uncover how rejection can be harnessed as a powerful motivator, especially within the competitive arenas of sports and business, and how it can drive us to prove our critics wrong.  Drawing inspiration from Kobe Bryant’s celebrated "Mamba Mentality," we discuss the virtues of hard work and relentless persistence. A humorous family story about ice-making duties helps illustrate the importance of putting forth your best effort in every task, no matter how mundane. We also highlight the critical role of patience in achieving success, particularly in small business endeavors and life's broader challenges. By nurturing these values in our children, we hope to ignite their passions and dream bigger.  Patience and perseverance take center stage as we reflect on life's unpredictable journey through the lens of farming. Contrasting modern society's instant gratification culture, we emphasize the long-term benefits of patience and steady effort. We share motivational quotes and personal transformation stories that underscore the importance of resilience. Ending on a heartfelt note, we discuss the impact of our podcast journey, the power of vulnerability, and the significance of kindness, capped off with Mother Teresa’s inspiring poem, "Do it Anyway." Tune in for a wealth of insights designed to help you navigate life's ups and downs with grace and resilience. 

 Released May 2024 - Matty Ledgerwood, the owner and founder of Ledgerwood Home Restoration. Matty shares valuable insights and experiences that shed light on the challenges and rewards of the restoration industry. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of what it takes to thrive in the world of home restoration. Matty is someone who is the very definition of being tempered. 

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